Human beings are wired to want to give, to help. It makes us feel good, and we like that feeling, the one when we give, in return, we gain a sense of satisfaction, of well being, that we made a positive contribution towards a cause that is important to us, or, making someone else’s life better. How and what we give depends on our individual experiences and circumstances, ultimately, the motivation which causes us to give.
Possibly the largest motivator of giving originates in the heart - a cause, a tragedy, or an event which resonates with us, and calls out to us personally. Giving does not always have to involve money. Often, it involves a commitment of time - something so valuable and difficult to find enough of in busy lives, or, lending support through our presence and voice.
Realizing the significance of giving by understanding the motive behind it, allows us to determine what, how and where, to give. Most people are especially deeply affected when children become victims of tragedies. The response of sending a cuddly stuffed animal to those devastated by these tragedies may be a good idea in offering comfort, but do thousands of stuffed toys really help those in need and suffering? By researching the most effective way to give, whether it be money, time, or presence, is a worthwhile investment of time in ensuring that the effort is not wasted.
There are numerous opportunities to give. Verifying the legitimacy of the cause is also important, requiring time and due diligence in ensuring the cause is real. Therefore, careful consideration in identifying what is important to us, and, really touches our hearts can guide our choices in how/what we give.