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Couples Massage

Elements Massage Paradise Valley Jan 20, 2015

Massages are typically considered to be deeply personal experiences. They are meant to be a relaxing and self-healing time spent in a meditative state that allows you to focus your attention on your own body. While all of this is absolutely true, massages can also be a great way to bring two people together in a shared experience. Most massage studios offer what is typically called a couples massage, which basically means that you and your spouse, friend, or loved one receive a massage at the same time, in the same room, from two different massage therapists. Why would you opt to share an experience like this? Let’s examine several of the relationship benefits a couples massage scenario can provide that go beyond the normal personal routing of caring and healing:

Keeping the Relationship Fresh

Going out to get a couples massage with your spouse or loved one is a great way to keep a relationship fresh and exciting. Most couples fall into routines when it comes to what they do together for fun and oftentimes it involves sitting on the couch together watching movies. Getting out of your comfort zone and doing something new like a couples massage is a great way to break that routine and introduce novel experiences to the relationship.

Caring for Yourself Makes You Better at Caring for Others

Being in a happy and relaxed state of mind will enable anyone to be a better care giver for others. This is especially true in spousal relationships where self care can often be overlooked or passed over with the onslaught of home and work pressure that inevitably builds up. Getting a couples massage is a great way for a couple to show one another that they care about each other’s personal health and well being. Not to mention, massage is well known to aid in the release of the body’s feel-good hormones like oxytocin and dopamine which can help get couples in the right state of mind to be more caring and loving towards one another.

Being Together in the Now and Not Looking to the Future

Relationships can sometimes fall under the heavy burden of plans for the future. Whether it’s that growing honey-do list, or upcoming job changes or promotions, couples can have the tendency to slip into always thinking about tomorrow and not enjoying one another today. Couples massage is a great way to slow down time and do something together that is only about the moment. A one hour massage session can truly relax all of the body’s muscles which enables the mind to take a break from thinking about the grocery list, the laundry list, and the home improvement projects. When a couple feels together in the moment and is not distracted by thoughts of the future, it can even enable them to develop their emotional connection to one another, leading to improved intimacy and communication.

Next time you are planning for the weekend and all you have on your list are soccer games, home depot runs, and house chores, consider adding in a short one hour block to that busy schedule for you and your spouse to enjoy a couples massage together. It is the perfect way to jump start your connection to one another and slow down that busy body lifestyle!

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Comments (1)

James on Feb 08, 2016
Good morning, i was just wondering how much the couples massage would cost if we were both first timers. Would we get the first time experience discount?